Customer Reviews
Insightful must have relationship handbook! - By: Haunted Doll, 01 Aug 2006 
I first read this book over a year ago & have just re-read it recently. I found it very insightful & so helpful on both occasions.
I think it is definitely worth reading & you may learn something new.
I learnt new ways to communicate with my boyfriend & turn what we had into the relationship i had always wanted. I also learnt valuable lessons about myself & my own behaviour & realised that some of the things i said or did were having a destructive effect on our relationship - it definitely wasn't all my boyfriend's fault as i had originally thought.
The love letters are an invaluable tool for organising your thoughts rather than just launching into an argument - it pays to take a deep breath & write one using the structured guide. I guarantee you will be surprised at some of the feelings & thoughts that come out.
I have recently passed this book to a friend & it has been so rewarding to see her take control of her relationship using the advice it contains. I would recommend it to anyone looking for a new approach to their relationship.
Useful to a certain extent! - By: , 17 Aug 2005 
I have read this book several times, & even though it usefulin helping understand the different ways men & women think & feel, it does tend to simplify things. This book shouldn't be read as a way of magically saving or fixing a relationship, although the suggestions are helpful, you may not get all the answers & solutions you want. After all it might explain why men go into their 'caves' but doesn't tell you what to do if they never come out!! It might help you improve what you've got, but isn't going to teach you how to make something out of nothing! I think the opposite sex will always to some extent remain one of life's greatest mysteries, & isn't that part of the fun?!
Very helpful indeed! - By: , 15 Jun 2005 This book is amazing! It goes into such detail about how men & women think differently & how & what they hear when their partner speaks to them. Excellent book if you would like to better understand your partner. Just get him to read it too!! I found it really improved my understanding of how my husband thinks. It also helped me to understand myself better & why I think & feel certain ways. It just makes sence! Read this book if your relationship isin any kind of trouble!
