Customer Reviews
buy it - By: Mr. Michael D. Bowles, 06 Oct 2008 
Ever thought of putting your promising child on the stage? Then buy this book before you do. A grippingly accurate account of the dos & don'ts of child acting from the point of view of a parent who initially had no idea that her darling daughter would make it to the West End stage.
Charting the rise of Dora's stardom with an incisive & thoughtful wit, Lisa Gee tells us how it is with a stunning self awareness & an honest eye trained on the pitfalls lurkingin the wings.
A must read. Superb.
Required reading for parents of performing children - By: Rachel Andrew, 01 Aug 2008 Stage Mum is an honest, down to earth & entertaining read that also manages to touch on the serious issues that parents of "performing children" suddenly find themselves facing - often with very little support. I wish this book had been around when my daughter was castin a West End show as I'd have been far better prepared for the chaos that took over our lives for 5 unforgettable months.
If your child has West End aspirations, or you have ever wondered about the lives of the children you see performingin professional theatre then do read this book. It is incredibly honest, both from the point of view of Lisa's feelings as a mother &in her descriptions of the day to day practicalities of having a child workingin a show for half a year.
Stage Mum - By: Cathy J, 07 Jul 2008 Lisa has an honest & funny look at her experiences as a Stage Mum, writing about her daughter's runin the Sound of Music from auditions through to rehearsals, publicity, performances & "what Dora did next". She bravely analyses & confronts her fears about the industry's impact on child performers' lives long term, not settling for a glamorous celebrity filled description of the experience. Her humour, insight & frankness make this book a fascinating read for anyone, whether they have seen the BBC's "How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria", Sound of Music on film or stage, or have contemplated and/or been a part of the world of stage parents.
Mrs Worthington? Who's she?! - By: theatremonkey, 04 Jul 2008 Landmark revival "The Sound Of Music" at the London Palladiumin 2006 may have chosen its leading lady by television vote, but the cast is larger than a single publicly-elected new star. With children a key feature of the show, how do producers find enough of them to keep Maria busy? Six-and-a-bit-year-old Dora Gee was one volunteer keen to become a Von Trapp... With trepidation, "mother superior" Lisa agrees to let her audition; this is their tale.
Subtitling her book "When showbiz happens to your child" rather than "Connie Fisher, My Partin Her Triumph" demonstrates just how seriously Lisa Gee took keeping her daughter's first stage experiencein perspective. Deeply scared by "child star burns outin adolescence" stories & without any knowledge of the business herself, she prepares for the worst but instead is often pleasantly surprised.
Much of the appeal of this book is the immediacy of Lisa's writing. Even though we know Dora bags the part, the earliest chapters - all titled with quotes from the show's lyric - are a measured mixture of mundane family life dappled with the pleasure of anticipation & shadows of potential failure. We livein the same moment as the author, where every meeting, letter & email could "make or break" the fantasy... & the laundry still needs doing.
Interlacing descriptions of audition & rehearsal processes, seeing her daughter on stage for the first time, opening-night parties & settling into the run; Lisa interviews manyin the business & considers objectively just how wise it is allowing your child to join a dropout apprentice nun's adopted brood for six months.
It certainly isn't the money. Dora was paid far less than the price of a decent stalls ticket each night, while the parents counted themselves lucky to get even a proportion of their own travel expenses paid. The true gain, as Lisa concludes by chatting with parents & professionals, is building confidence by channelling youthful energy & creativity into something good.
Lisa's maternal thoughts & feelings, observations & reflections are an informative perspective for anybody with a stage-struck child. In the future, Dora may choose West End stars or NASA ones. Either way,in this book she will have a highly readable & entertaining record of a very special adventure; a pleasure we are lucky to share.
