Customer Reviews
Wow! Shock, smile, let's read some more! - By: Jenny, 23 Jan 2006 
I opened this not kowing what I would find. The first pages I looked at mentioned "handballing" & I immediately shut the book. As a feminist it took me a little while to get into what they were talking about here. Luckily, I'm a liberal.
There is a definate focus on butch/femme relationships which gives the book a slightly subversive feel, & the interviews are very welcome. It was nice to see some trans inclusion with an interview with the lovely Kate Bornstein, & with Les Feinberg, who I admire greatly.
Practially the book gives you what you want. It is down & dirty when it comes to advice & doesn't shirk from being explicit. It isn't for the fainthearted.
The inclusion of topics covering everything from kissing to BDSM means you get a wide spread of enjoyable practices that are clearly explained & encouraged.
Throughout the book, our sexuality is posited as powerful & demanding, notin a way that men have constructed, which is usualin most sex manuals, but here it is owned completely by women.
My girlfriend & I have only begun to explore what it can do for us, & it looks like it's going to be a regular read from now on.
Full of regrets - By: , 20 Jan 2006 
I found this book to be a regretful read!
If your a femme or baby dyke, then don`t bother.
Its outdated & old fashioned. However if your old school then this could comein very handy even if its a bit rushed at times, & simplistic.
Great Book! - By: , 10 Jan 2006 Unlike some other lesbian sex books I've seen which talk more about health & relationships, this one is purely about sex - both monogomous & casual. As a complete beginner to the subject I found it incredibly useful, but I feel 100% certain that other people more advanced than me would also get something from it. In fact, some of the stuff was so advanced it scared me a bit! All the subjects covered go into a good amount of detail - not too little & not so much that you get bored. I would definately recommend this book, especially if you are looking for a few ideas to spice up your sex life!
