Customer Reviews
Fascinating - By: Wildlife Bookworm, 30 Aug 2007 
The brilliance of this book lies chieflyin its ability to effortlessly convey complex sociological theories to a wide audience. Writingin a form that allows 'ordinary' people to appreciate & understand our fascinating relationships with our closest relatives without sacrificing any of its potencyin the translation.
Our Inner Ape is basically a study of the development of human characteristics through the course of evolution, focusing mainly on mental aspects such as morality & empathy. Using behavioural experiments & extensive observations of both wild & captive apes (particularly chimps & bonobos) De Waal demonstrates how little we are removed from our primate cousins & theorises what factors might have steered the evolution of human mentality towards what it is today.
My favourite thing about this book is the inclusion of many anecdotes that the author has amassed over his decades of research. Some of these are truly overwhelming. Whether horrific, amusing, or emotional these stories really bring home not only the intelligence, but also the individuality of these animals as well as giving an insight into the social worlds of ape colonies.
The book could be much improved with more numerous & better quality pictures. There is a small group of old photosin the middle but these are allin black & white & are either facial close-ups or takenin a laboratory. Colour photographs with better captions & showing some of the behaviour discussedin the book would be a great improvement.
Although this is a relatively easy book to read & understand you need to pay attention to grasp many of the concepts. It moves at a fast pace & there is a lot to take in, but put the effortin & you will be glad you did.
A genuinely wonderful - and important - read - By: L. Owens, 29 Aug 2006 
Primate behaviour books have a habit of plunging into mawkish sentimentality, or avoiding this by being so dry that they could be used to mop up spills. This one is a glorious exception. Written by a US-naturalised Dutch primate expert, his descriptive, emotional, carefully-measured, pithy & resonant writing perfectly walks the tightrope between observation & interpretation, & using this to explain aspects of human behaviour that we never even thought about before. He includes a lot of important information about chimpanzee & bonobo society, which is enthusiastic without being effusive, measured without being dull, & includes amusing & illuminating examples from humans, all their primate relatives, & beyond. Even his cat, Diego, gets a lookin. His further-reaching comments contextualise us neatlyin the animal kingdom, while highlighting how our unique capacities might be turned towards improving the worldin which we live. I have tried to fault it, but I can't. Read this book.
How special are you? - By: Stephen A. Haines, 17 Nov 2005 Primatology, the study of our ape cousins, must at once be the most rewarding & thankless jobsin science. On the one hand, these investigations can tell us more about ourselves than any philosophy or psychology curriculum can hope to impart. We learn of their friendships, conflicts, desires, social manipulations & group politics. The resemblances to humans make compelling reading. On the other hand, the long history of our culture has conditioned us to avoid recognising our evolutionary roots. There are "the animals" & there is "us".
With thirty years' experiencein the Netherlands & the United States, de Waal wants us to understand how human values derive from primate origins. His careful studies have revealed things unexpected even to himself. His chief aim with this synopsis is to dispense with the many myths that have emerged over the past few years - chimpanzees as "murderers" or "war-makers"; bonobos as over-sexed & gender indifferent, both as "simply wild animals living at the command of "instinct". Diversity & individuality are a major facet of ape societies which,in de Waal's assessment, not only makes them worthy of study, but worthy of sound comparison with our own species.
At first glance, de Waal's condensation of ape behaviour into four topical chapters seems over-distillation. The materialin those chapters, however, shows the complexity of primate personalities. Chimpanzee society is male-dominated, with young males taking every opportunity to displace the "alpha" group leader. They livein a strongly hierarchical society where the males hunt & dispense meat for sexual & other favours. Female chimpanzees form few alliances, although brief excursions with males other than the alpha occur. The other "chimpanzee", as de Waal points out, couldn't be more different. The bonobo, once known as the "pygmy chimp", has a more egalitarian society. In fact, the most dominant individual is usually an older female. When fights occur, they are generally brief & inconsequential. The "alpha" female is more likely to die of old age than be toppled by a younger competitor. The leading bonobo is respected for her conciliation & diplomatic skills. Power, then, is a feature of primate society, but how power is exhibited & maintained varies greatly.
"Sex" & "Violence" form the next two topics. Among the apes, including humans, there are several trade-offs involvedin producing & raising offspring. Male-dominated chimpanzee groups can establish parentage with relative ease. "Extra-Pair Matings" [EPM] are discouraged & the alpha male is fairly securein the babies being his. One of the more distressing discoveries about chimpanzees was the revelation that an usurping alpha would kill all his predecessor's offspring. Bonobos would find such behaviour abhorrent [as do we]. In bonobo society, everybody has sex with everybody else - gender is irrelevant. Consequently, since any baby might belong to any male, infanticide is unknown. It's not unknown among humans. The rate of violence against stepchildren, says de Waal, is a matter of some concern. The rate of human EPM is even higher, with studies indicating as many as one-fifth of newborns fathered by unacknowledged men. Yet, alone among primates, we form the "nuclear family" group.
There's another side to all ape behaviour, says de Waal. That's "Kindness". Science turns over both its own & society's often cherished beliefs. One of those beliefs is that only humans "care". Opening the book with the now-famous case of the gorilla that rescued a small child from a zoo moat, de Waal goes on to explain how apes are kind to each other, & even other species. We like to believe that kindness is something we invented with culture, but de Waal suggests there are roots for it reaching back at least 6 million years when the chimp-human lineage split. "The apes can tell us much about ourselves", he contends. There's no better place to seek that information than among them. While fights among chimpanzees are common & often intense, so is the reconciliation that follows. Chimpanzees, bonobos & humans are form societies. Each has methods to keep those societies functioning. Empathy & mutual kindness are as much a part of ape "culture" asin human communities. De Waal urges that we open our eyes to the examples offered by our ape cousins for hints about solving some of our own problems. The biggest step we must takein that process is the recognition that our habits derive from theirs.
That derivation is de Waal's conclusion to this excellent work. Much has been made of the fact that humans & chimpanzees share over 98% of our DNA. The author passes over the numbersin favour of the behavioural evidence. We & the other apes share the experience of "community" & how to live with others. In aspects of sex & violence, we share habits & diverge - but not far -in others. It's false, he says, to argue that humans are "naturally" violent or loving. We aren't the manifestation of "selfish" genes alone, but adapt fluidly to changing conditions. Like the other apes, we negotiate, maneuver & manipulate, sometimes successfully. Our greatest difference isin the way we occupy & use territory. We evolvedin an open environment, but we live enclosedin urban centres. That is a contradiction we must learn to deal with. We are,in his words, "The Bipolar Ape". [stephen a. haines - Ottawa, Canada]
